Black men in positively relating to each other we must be 'mindful' that our minds have been socialized 'programmed' and constantly bombarded with negative 'stereotypes' thoughts and perceptions about each other that too often results in reactionary detrimental responses. Therefore in dealing with each other we must first check 'pause' dispute Black male distrust and hate programming tendencies and reflexes to develop better and more progressive relationships as Black men.
Wednesday, June 15, 2022
Saturday, May 28, 2022
Wednesday, May 25, 2022
"Those Black preachers who subscribe to predestination 'God's Will' must also believe that God is just 'right' when it comes to the racist disproportionate warehousing of Black men in prison; thus God has racistly willed millions of Black men to end up in jails and prisons? Is this the fatalistic reason why most Black preachers do very little for Black men to prevent them from being incarcerated? " - CNK
Tuesday, May 17, 2022
Black men does the cold-blooded white male supremacist act of mass murder terror in Buffalo have us traumatized consciously or unconsciously? Are we trying to deny or avoid addressing the trauma? Is the trauma preventing us from commenting, remarking, and posting about it? Or is it just a case of "staying out of white folks business."
by KenRay SunYaRu
Recently Kevin Samuels a super-popular and controversial Black male YouTube relationship coach died.
Indeed Samuels was controversial to many Black women because he exposed and challenged their narrow relationship notions; he countered their unrealistic thinking and double-standards; he pushed back against Black male bashing and women's truth that in relationship failures that they are always just innocent victims.
Many Black men in the 'manosphere' who supported Samuels felt he said some truthful things about Black women that made them feel very uncomfortable; that he challenged women's lop-sided narrative and blame-game; he questioned and showed them that they are often the problem.
When it was announced that Samuels had died many-many Black women celebrated his death, actress Vivica Fox called "Samuels’ death karma payback."
Let me say this to all the Miss Fox types, all of my life I've seen way too many Black women 'forgive' racist hate-filled police and white supremacists who murdered their Black fathers, brothers, sons, husbands, boyfriends, nephews, male cousins and friends.
In contrast I've seen way too many Black women carry 'no forgiveness' ongoing hatred against Black men for relationship failures or who were critical of their behavior whether justified or not.
Can I get an explanation for the drastic difference?
Thursday, May 12, 2022
Saturday, May 7, 2022
by Kenny Anderson