Friday, February 26, 2021

Black History Month: Never Designed For Black Men To Be Full Men

by KenRay SunYaru 

Prior to European colonial intervention in Africa indigenous African 'rites of passage' process was customary to transform boys into men. Once our African forefathers became economic prisoners of colonialism and forcibly brought to slave plantations in America.

The enslavement process was designed for our forefathers never to be men in the fullest sense, but dependent “child-like” men; permanently under the control of racist, white male supremacy paternalism – the “godfathers.”

In 1712, Willie Lynch, a slave-owner, produced a handbook, “How to Make a Slave,” based on “horse-breaking,” that explained the process used to break the minds, bodies, and spirits of Black people during slavery.

In his handbook Lynch described how to use “fear, distrust, envy,” and extreme brutality to debase our forefathers (the word lynching derived from his name):

“When it comes to breaking the uncivilized nigger, use the same process, but vary the degree and step up the pressure so as to do a complete reversal of the mind. Take the meanest and most restless nigger, strip him of his clothes in front of the remaining male niggers, the female, and the nigger infant, tar and feather him, tie each leg to a different horse faced in opposite directions, set him afire and beat both horses to pull him apart in front of the remaining niggers. The next step is to take a bullwhip and beat both the remaining nigger male to the point of death in front of the female and the infant. Don't kill him. But put the fear of God in him, for he can be useful for future breeding.” 

Lynch’s book was a manual on slave-breaking 'seasoning', a list of instructions to reduce our African forefathers into ‘dehumanized niggers’; As Malcolm X said: “We were chained like animals and then we were reduced to horses, cows, and chickens.” 

Our forefathers were stripped of their African names and clothing. They were denied cultural and spiritual expressions. They were stripped of their manhood; their ability to provide and protect. They could not communicate in their native languages. Lynch understood the importance of language control:

“So you have to be careful in setting up the new language for the slave would soon be in your house, talking to you as 'man to man' and that is death to our economic system. In addition, the definition of words or terms are only a minute part of the process. Values are created and transported by communication through the body of the language. A total society has many interconnected value system. All these values in the society have bridges of language to connect them for orderly working in the society. But for these bridges, these many value systems would sharply clash and cause internal strife or civil war, the degree of the conflict being determined by the magnitude of the issues or relative opposing strength in whatever form. For example, if you put a slave in a hog pen and train him to live there and incorporate in him to value it as a way of life completely, the biggest problem you would have out of him is that he would worry you about provisions to keep the hog pen clean, or partially clean, or he might not worry you at all. On the other hand, if you put this same slave in the same hog pen and make a slip and incorporate something in his language whereby he comes to value a house more than he does his hog pen you got a problem. He will soon be in your house.” 

Indeed, freedom language was outlawed, any enslaved Black men who were caught talking or writing about freedom and equality would be killed. Nat Turner, Denmark Vessey, and Gabriel Prosser were executed for expressing their freedom to rebel. 

Only white men had the right to fully express their manhood. Only white men had the right to be fully sovereign and free. Only white men had the right to defend themselves and their interests by arms.

From slavery until today, Black men’s freedom, both civil and human rights, have been subordinate to the political and economic interests of white men! White men continue to design Black men’s sense of freedom, especially when it comes to negative freedom; as Sanyika Shakur remarked on this social engineering by design: 

”A Black thug, rogue, hoodlum, gangster or criminal is a product of circumstances prevailing in a usually controlled environment.”

Most Black men are forced to live in circumstances of high unemployment and poverty; domestic colonial conditions created by the decisions of white political and economic policy-makers. Most Black men have known nothing but negative freedom: racial oppression, economic exploitation, and social degradation. 

Most Black men experience discrimination, deprivation, and frustration daily. This sense of being slighted, denied, and thwarted is misdirected into jealousy petty rivalry, and violence; George Jackson highlighted this self-defeating behavior:

“To the Black male the losses were most tragic of  all. It will do us no good to linger over the fatalities, they’re numberless and beyond our reach. But we who have survived must eventually look at ourselves and wonder why. The competition at the bottom of the social spectrum is for symbols, honors, and objects; Black against itself.”   

Yes, it is critical for most Black men today to question why after 308 years that we are still affected by the Willie Lynch Syndrome (WLS). From my perspective there are 2 reasons: first we are still controlled externally in a neo-slavery fashion by Willie Lynch – the white male power structure; secondly, as Black men, we internally, though unconsciously self-perpetuate it through self-hating, self-limiting, self-containing, and self-destructive behaviors.

Thus the Willie Lynch Syndrome (WLS) based on “fear, distrust, and envy” remains because it is reinforced by exterior and interior forces. Willie Lynch predicted that his slave-making method would last for 300 years. 

As Black men until we become conscious of the Willie Lynch Syndrome (WLS) and break ourselves from the grip of its psychological design we will never become free and self-determining men.

Thursday, February 11, 2021

Black History Month Spotlight: Our Community For the Most Part Has Become a ‘Community of Enabling’ Instead of a ‘Community of Accountability’

 by Kenny Anderson

From my perspective over the past 4 decades Black communities and families have increasingly become enabling facilitators of drug addiction that’s had a tremendous financial burden on us; billions of dollars have been lost.
Remember as you read this blog post I am not addressing how white supremacy uses drug warfare against us externally, I’m specifically addressing internally the financial costs of Black addiction.
What is Enabling Drug Addiction?
Enabling generally describes someone whose behavior allows a loved one to continue self-destructive addiction patterns of behavior. Enabling a drug addict goes much deeper than simply providing them with money or a place to stay.
Whenever you behave in a way that delays the moment where the addict is forced to confront the full gravity of the situation and responsibility then you are enabling the addiction! Some of the most common signs of enabling an addict include:
*Providing them with money to support their habit
*Providing them with shelter
*Downplaying the severity of the problem
*Providing emotional support
*Lying on their behalf to shield them from consequences
*Rationalizing their behavior or making excuses for them
*Constant forgiveness
*Not making them accountable
The worst type of enabling is when family members simply do nothing at all. When families pretend not to see such a glaring problem of addiction; they send the signal to the addict that there is nothing wrong with their behavior.
Accountability the Contrast of Enabling
Family accountability is practicing 'tough love' with addicts, putting them out of the home and keeping them out until they can demonstrate consistently being responsible and not detrimental. Self-accountability or personal accountability means that you are responsible for your choices and actions including the consequences.
Self-accountability means that you don’t subscribe to a ‘victim mentality’ don’t view yourself as a ‘victim of circumstances’; you don’t engage in the forever blame-game! In the case of drug addiction you don’t view your addiction as a ‘fatalistic disease’ of constant ‘justified relapses’.
Self-accountability means you don’t accept being an ‘enabling exploiter’, you don’t let others do what you must do for yourself! You commit to daily work ‘self-improvement’ and ‘self-discipline’ to overcome your addiction.
Drug Addiction Costs Big-Time!
Let me say simply from the get-go, addictions are expensive to maintain, and their cost increases the longer a person has them. Addictions never level out, as it becomes harder for a person to reach the same level of satisfaction, they will need to engage in addictive behaviors more and more resulting in higher expenses.
Indeed addictions are cumulative, they will cost more to maintain the longer a person has them. For example, consider smoking. A single pack of cigarettes costs around $6, although it may be more or less expensive in some areas depending on state taxes.
A person with a light nicotine addiction may smoke a pack a week. As their tolerance rises, this may double, and then triple, until they become pack-a-day smokers. At that rate, an addiction that once cost less than $25 a month to maintain can easily become a $180 per month addiction, and it's not uncommon for many chain smokers to go through more than one pack a day.
A pack-a-day smoking habit translates to around $2,160, or about 10% of a person's income at the poverty level. Considering nearly 30% of Black smokers are below the poverty level, this has a huge financial impact on people's lives; alcoholism has a huge negative financial impact too.
Regarding heroin and crack-cocaine addiction it’s way more expensive to maintain than cigarettes and alcohol.
Black Family Financing of Addictions
For the most part addicts are ‘selfish’ manipulators who don’t ‘give a fuck’ about how damaging the financial impact of their addiction is on their families: fuck y’all bills to pay for food, clothing, and shelter; I’m going to steal and pawn y’all shit on a daily so I can get high, plus I’m going to stay in this house I steal from for free! Y’all gone enable me bitch and bet not nobody say something about it!
Black addicts have no regard for others lives, I’ve witnessed enabling grandmothers, mothers, and aunties beg, plead, cry, pray, and constantly give money but it had no effect on reducing Black addicts addiction. In many cases the stressful chaotic behavior of these addicts contributed to the premature deaths of their grandmothers, mothers, and aunties who died as 'enabling martyrs'. These addicts have wreaked havoc on their families contributing to debt, divorces, dysfunctionality, and displacements.
Indeed Black addicts are ‘financial parasites’ on their families due to property theft and replacement. Over 4 decades I’ve seen family members, relatives, friends, and others who were addicts steal everything but the kitchen sinks out of their family’s homes: they stole money, computers, televisions, video games, VCR’s, CD players, stereo equipment, musical instruments, cameras, microwaves, toasters, electric can openers, electric tooth brushes, hair blow dryers, guns, jewelry, shoes, clothes, toys, bikes, furniture, food, etc.
Not only have Black families loss hundreds of millions of dollars due to thieving Black addicts; they’ve loss hundreds of millions of dollars paying for lawyers, bail, and court fees for family addicts who engage in crime. Moreover they’ve paid hundreds of millions of dollars to drug dealers to payoff drug debts. Yes many family houses have been firebombed and many family members have been murdered due to addicts drug debts.
In closing, Black folks how can we ever have internal economic development when foreign merchants extract billions of dollars out of our communities annually coupled with Black addicts causing billions of dollars in family financial hardships every year?
I say to Black communities and families in addressing family members who are addicts, we have to move from being a community of enablers to being a community of accountability.